on xanga, you may have a lot of friends, but those who get the comments are those still living at home and around those friens. My friends that have moved don't get many comments anymore. I hate that. I hate that friends can forget so easily. I hate that we can get wrapped up in our lives the people surrounding us and completely forget about old friends. There is a time to move on from some friends, but that should be deliberate. ACK! don't dump your friends just because they aren't there anymore!!!